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अपनी Communication Skills को कैसे सुधारे || How To Improve Communication Skills ?






Hello Friends.
Aaj me lekar aaya hun Communication Skills ki 4 bahut hi zabardast technique. Agar aap ye technique sikh jaoge isse practice karke koi bhi sikh sakta hai. To isse aapko 3 fayde honge first aap baat karne ke expert ban jaoge second yeh aap bahut confidant banjaoge aur third ye ki aap kisi ko bhi aur batao aur sunao bolke bor nahi karoge.

To dosto bina kisi time waste kiye chaliye jante hai:-

#1 Technique ( Quality ) :-
Ye sunne me bahut common lagta hai magar hai nahi.
ek acha conversation depend karta hai uski quality par. Isliye jab bhi aap bolo aur koshish karo saare unimportant words nikal do. Jese Hmmmm, Ummmm, Aur batao, Normally, Jo hai to, I know, Ye words conversation me koi value nahi rakhte. Aur inhe bolne ka koi matlab nahi hai.

For Example:-
Sunday ko aap kya karte ho.?
Ummm me har sunday subah cricket khelne jata hu you know. normally dupehar tak cricket khelta hu. Than sham ko hmmmmm meri family ke sath bahar jaata hu.You know sunday ko literally bahut maza ata hai.

Ab isse ap compare kare.
Sunday ko aap kya karte ho?
Me har sunday subah cricket khelne jata hun aur dopahar tak cricket khelta hun. Than sham ko family ke sath bahar jata hun sunday ko literally bahut maza ata hai.

Apne dekha second version kafi short hai lekin jo information conven ki gai hai vo same hai balki second version jada confidant lag raha hai.

Isme abhi bhi ek kami hai isme kya kami hai dekhte hai Technique number 2

#2 Technique ( Pauses ):-
Ek jesa bolne ke bajaye thoda ruk kar bolna chahiye jab aap thoda ruk kar bolte hai to ye apki baat me damm paida kar deta hai second sentence ko thoda ruk kar bolte hai 

Me har sunday cricket khelne jata hun aur dopahar tak cricket khelta hun.
Than sham ko family ke sath bahar jata hun.
Sunday ko literally bahut maza ata hai.

Ye hai different agar apko apne msg me damm paida karna hai to thoda ruk kar boliye aur thoda sahi jagah par rukiye. Ye mat sochne lag jata haklana hai ruk kar matlab samne wale ko samajh me aye aap ki baat.

#3 Technique ( Statement ) :-
Common mistake jo mostly log karte hai wo ye ki samne wale par question par question fire karte jaate hai. Jese ki wo unka interview le rahe hai Don't do that kyunki agar ap sirf question puchoge aur agar apne baare me kuch bhi nahi bataoge to ye one sided hi reh jayega aur samne wala apse jald se jald picha chudana chahega. Isliye sawal karne ki jagah statement use karo.

Me apko do tarike ki kaam ki statement ki technique batata hu.

1 Cold Reading Statement :-
Isme aap ko karna kya hai ki aap ko samne wale ko observ karke unke bare me bas andaza lagana hai aur vahi unse kehna hai.

Maan lo ki ap kisi se puchna chahte ho to unki hobbies kya hai.?
Toooo ap simple sawal ye puchoge ki apki hobbies kya hai.?
Isko agar cold read statement banaye to kaho aap kafi interesting person nazar aate ho me shart laga sakta hun apki hobbies bhi kafi interesting hogi.
Agar apka andaza galat hua to wo apko correct karenge ki nahi yaar me kaha interesting hun me to din bhar sota hun ya fir wo apse puchenge ki aapko kyun lagta hai ki me interesting hun.

Lekin aap sahi nikle to apke aur unke bich ek strong connection ban jayega aur bahut hi herani se puchenge ki meri interesting hobbies hai aap ko kese pata.

Cold Reading Statement jyotis bhi istemal karte hai.
hath dekh kar kahenge beta tumhari do do gf  hai do nahi bhi hogi to bhi aap ko lagega kaha hai ye vo ye vo babaa bas baba baba ap to sab jante ho. Do Not Fall In This Shit.
ye to bas cold reading statement hai inhe jyotis mentalists, psychics, illusionists istemal karte hai.

Samne wale ka andaza lagao 
agar ap galat ho to apko correct karenge.
agar ap sahi ho to ek bahut accha connection build ho jayega.

2  Story Telling Statement :-
Agar apko kisi se puchna hai ki aap ko kis baat se dar lagta hai ?
To ap simple tarike se puchoge apko kisse dar lagta hai. ? isme apne koi information share nahi ki aap is sawal ko story form me bana sakte ho.
Aap keh sakte ho bachpan me mujhe andhero se bahut dar lagta tha me sote time khud ko blanket me puri tarah chupa leta tha taki koi bhoot mujhe pakad na paaye.yaha par aap apne story sunai jisse samne wale par ispar kai topic nikal sakta hai like andhera, bachpan, bhoot  woh apne experience bata sakta hai.

So  simple question karne ki jagah statement ka istemal karo isse jyada acha connection banta hai.

Ab aate hai communication technique number 4 par ye technique itni strong hai ki agar ap isse sikh jaoge to apke paas kabhi baato ki kami nahi hogi aur aap kabhi aur batao aur sunao jese words istemal nahi karoge.

#4 Technique ( Conversational Threading ) :-
Ek normal conversation kitna funny hota hai suniye.

Me :aap kaha se ho.?
You: main  mumbai se hun.
Me:oh that's cool
You: aur aap kaha se ho 
Me: Main delhi se hun.
You: ohh acha aur sunao 
Me : bas badiya aap sunao

Bas yahi apka conversation mar jata hai.conversation threading two ways me kaam karti hai first ye ki jab ap kuch bolo to itni information do ki samne wala usme se topic nikal kar aage baat bhada sake yani ke apki statement me story honi chahiye again story.
Aur secon way ye ki samne wala jo bhi bol raha hai ap usme se topic dhundo.

Jab bhi hum kuch kehte hai to humare har sentence me kai topics hote hai par hum dhyan hi nahi dete hai agar is conversation ye ke me mumbai se hun ki jagah yeh kaha jaye waise to me mumbai se hun lekin mujhe chote shehar me rehna pasand hai kyunki mujhe jyada bheed bhad pasand nahi hai.

Is sentance me se kai baatein shuru ki jaa sakti hai like mumbai, chota shehar, bheed bhad aap apne mumbai trip ke baare me bat kar sakte hai, chote shehar ke experiance ke baare me baat kar sakte ho, bheed bhad par apni raye rakh sakte ho last time jab ap traffic me fase the woh experience share kar sakte ho.

Maan lo samne wala bas itna h keh raha hai ki wo mumbai se hai fir jab woh apse puche aap kaha se ho to ap achi information de sakte ho apne shehar ke baare me ki me delhi se hun Delhi india ka capital hai delhi me kai aisi chize hai jo delhi ko khas bnati hai like Lal Kila, Qutub Minar, etc etc delhi me Nehru place Asia ka sabse bada Technical Market hai. to isse interest badta hai samne wale ka wo aur sawal karte hai.

Ek aur example deta hun.
Agar ap programmer ho to ap keh sakte ho ki
Me ek software company me programmer hun aur me apni skills se logo ki life ko simplify karne ki koshish karta hun.
Is reply me kai topic hai jisme baat ki ja sakti hai like software company, programming skills, life ko simplify karna etc etc.

Mostly conversation jaldi khatam hone ki wajah yahi hoti hai dono party ek dusre ko aise topics hi nahi dete jis par baat ki ja sake jab ki woh de sakte hai agar apko kisi ne topic de diye to ap unme se choose kar sakte ho jisme aap interested ho  aur uspar aage baat kar sakte ho. aur agar nahi diya hai to aap unhe topics de sakte ho story statement ke jariye.

To ye thi communication skills ki 4 bahut hi power full techniques.

Isi ke sath me alvida leta hun milenge next topic par jaha aap ko aise hi kuch interesting baatein bataunga.

shabba khair.

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