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"अगर आपको कोई अपमानित करता है तो आप क्या करे" || How to Respond to insult ?




Hello Friends.,
Aaj ka topic un logo ke liye hai jo aksar insult hone ke baad kuch keh nahi pate ya insult hone ke baad gussa aa jata hai etc etc.

Aap ki kisi ne insult ki hai. Aap ki agar koi insult karega to ap kis tarah handle karoge kiya aap bhi samne walo ki tarah insult karoge ya aap chup hokar rone lag jaoge ya fir aap us jagah se uth kar chale jaaoge aur us insaan se future me baat karna bhi ignore karoge.

Well dosto aaj ki ye interesting topic me hum yahi sikhne wale hai ki jo bhi log hmari mazak bana rahe hai ya hmari insult kar rahe usko kis smart tarike se handle kiya jaye.

Jab hmari koi mazak karta hai to hume samajh nahi aata hai to uske sath me kiya karu kai bar hume gussa aa jata hai  ya hum uske sath fight karne lagte hai to kai bar hum dukhi hokar waha se chale jate hai.

Yaad rakhiye ki wo insult karne wale log bhi yahi chahte hai kyunki jab bhi aap pareshan hote hai tab waise logo ko aisa karke enjoyment milta hai aur agar ap is tarah react karte gaye to wo aap ko bar bar insult kate rahenge isliye hume agar  smart tarike se dusro ke mazak ya insult ko handle karna sikhna hai to hume sabse pehle ye janna hoga ki konse reason hai jiski wajah se koi ek insan dusre insan ki beizzati karta hai.

Friends aise do reason hai:-

1 Jealousy :-
jab hum life me kuch aisa kar jate hai ya kuch achireve karte hai to samne wala achieve na kar saka ho tab uske mind me hmare prati ek jealousy ka bhav utpan ho jata hai wo sochta hai ki yeh mujhse aage nikal gaya me usse aage nahi badne dunga aur woh aap ki manoban todne ke liye aap ki insult karne lagta hai.

For Example:-
Maan lijiye ap class me first aate ho. Aur apka second aane wala classmate apko dekh kar jealousy feel karta hai kyunki jo apne achieve kara hai woh second position wale nahi jisse usse jealousy feel hota hai aur aap ko nicha dikhane ke liye aap ki insult karta hai.

2 Insecurity :-
Normally kai bar khud ko acha feel karwane ke liye kuch log dusro ki insult karte hai aise log andar se khud ko insecure mante hai khud ke kaarye me bhi confidant nahi hota hai isliye woh log dusro ko nicha dikha ke khud ko mahan dikhana chahte hai.

Ye do reason janne ke baad question ye aata hai ki hume kya karna chahiye.
Kai bar apmaanit hone ke baad andar se gussa to bahut aata hai par wo log uspar shant reh jaate hai aur mann me hi pareshan hote rehte hai dosto ye baat jaan lijiye ki jab kisi bhi tarah ka gussa is tarah hamare mann me reh jata hai bahar nahi niklta to usse hi health issue create hone lagta hai.
To fir kyun hume dusro ki baato ko apne mind me rakh kar khud ko hi haani pahuchana ya pareshan karna chahiye.
Isse acha behatar rasta ye hai ki jab bhi aisa ho tab turant samne wali baat ko accept kar le aur mazak ke mood me is tarah response de ki wo mazak me hi uske unki galtiyon ka ehsaas ho jaye 

Example:-
Agar apko koi kahe You are stupid so ap usko kahe ki haan bhai tumhari baat sahi hai mera mind sunday ko kaam nahi karta.
Agar koi apko kahe ki tum bahut kamjor ho tab usse mazak me lekar kahe ki haan bhai me ye baat janta hu par mujhe push up karna pasand nahi.

Is tarah ap shant reh kar funny way me insult ka answer dusro ko de sakte hai.
Isse aapka mind bhi free ho jayega aur saamne wala bhi dobara aap ki insult nahi karega kyunki wo janta hai ki me agar uski insult karunga to bhi usko koi fark padne wala nahi hai to kyun na me uski insult hi na karu aur isse apka problem hi solve ho jayega.

Ek famous thought hai

Fark isse nahi padta ki apke sath kya hua
Fark isse padta hai ki ap woh us situation me aap kis tarah react karte ho.

Isliye relex rahe aur shanti se apni problems ka solution nikale. aur hamesha aap ko khud ke upar control rakhna hai jisse ap ka mind hamesha free rahe aur aap healthy rahe.
Jab bhi koi apki insult kare to ap unki baato ko personally na le aur mazak me lekar mere btaye tarike se reply de.

Last me hume comment me zarur btaye ki ap ko agar koi insult karta hai to aap kya reply karte ho.

Shabba Khair.





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