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"रिलेशनशिप में ब्रेकअप क्यों होते है" || Why breakups in a relationship | Hindi




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Aaj me aap ko batane wala hun ki kyun sacha pyaar karne par bhi 90% logo ka breakup ho jata hai agar aap bhi aisi galti laga tar karte rahoge to rab na kare jaane anjane ek din aap bhi apne pyaar ko kho bethoge.

Why breakups in a relationship


To Dosto Aisi Kai Saari Baato Ko Janne Ke Liye Is Article Ko Pura Padhe :-

Dosto waise to breakup hone ke piche hazaro reason hote hai woh reason to person to person agree bhi karte hai. Lekin kuch major reason jo sabhi relationship me globally paye jate hai wo me apko clearly practical psychological ke sath bataunga.

Me aap se ek sawal puchta hun ki kya aap aaj bhi apne ghar par beth kar har roz 5 saal purana ya 3 saal purana news paper daily padhte ho. Sunne me thoda ajeeb lag raha hoga na kyun ki aap aisi bewakufi kabhi nahi karte kyun ki aap ye jante ho ki bhai 5 saal purani news ya information ki aaj hamari present ki life se koi lena dena hi nahi hai isliye aap daily new news paper fresh news ke saath padhte ho right.

Magar friends yahi important principle hum apni relationship me naa jaane kyun bhool jate hai aur jab bhi hamari apne lover ke sath thodi choti moti anban ho jati hai tab hum unke past me ki gai saari galtiya aur jhagdo ko jaan bujh kar major ke roop me lekar aate hai.

Ab mana ki aap ke lover ne past me kuch aisi galtiya ki thi jo unhe nahi karni chahiye thi lekin ab baar baar usi baat ko aap present ki life me lekar aaoge to aap ka lover bhi aap ki past ki saari galtiya aur negative baate present ki life me lekar aayega.

Jiski wajah se aap dono ki taraf se jhagda hona start ho jayega isliye aap ki present ki life to kharab hogi hi hogi sath hi sath aap dono ka emotional love bond bhi tootne lagega aur apke naa chahte hue bhi aap ki pyaar ke rishte me ab nafrat ki darare aane lagti hai. Jiski wajah se ab aap ke partner ko aap ke sath stress enzyme ki negative feeling aayegi aur bhai koi bhi insaan aise negative environment rehna bilkul bhi pasand nahi karega.

Aur isi wajah se aap apni zindagi me se jaane anjane k sache pyaar ko kho dete ho. Isliye dosto hume ye baat hume samjhni hi hogi  ki jis tarah se 5 saal purane news paper ke liye hamare ghar me koi jagah nahi hoti thik usi tarah purane jhagde aur purani galtiyo ki bhi aaj hamare present ki life me koi jagah nahi hai woh ab sirf raddi ki tarah hai isliye usse apne ghar se aur apne dimag se bahar nikal dijiye nahi to woh aap ki zindagi me kachra aur gandgi hi felayegi aur isi gandi aur sadi hui jagah pe koi bhi insaan rehna pasand nahi karega.

Aur yahi ek sachai hai ki aap ko aaj nahi to kal samajhna hi hoga nahi to ye aap ki zindagi ko barbad hi karegi.

Toxic Breakup Reason :-

Psychological yeh batate hai ki relationship me aksar yeh dekha gaya hai ki pyaar hone ke baad couples pyaar me itna kho jate hai ki woh apni social life ko almost khatam hi kar dete hai.

Jaise ki agar me ladkiyo ki baat karu to ladkiya aksar relationship me aane ke baad khud ko usse pyaar aur relationship me hi samet leti hai aur apne purane dost aur social life ko almort khatam kar deti hai.

Jiski wajah se ya to woh apne partner ke aas pass rehna chahti hai ya fir akele me beth kar apne lover ke bare me sochti rehti hai aur fir thodi thodi der ke baad woh call ya sms ki umeed karti hai aur jab apne partner ki taraf se uski yeh umeed puri nahi hoti tab woh pareshan ho jati hai hurt feel karti hai yaha tak ki usse yeh lagne lagta hai ki uska partner ab usse utna pyaar nahi karta ya fir uska partner usse dhoka de raha hai aur yaha shak peda hone ki wajah banti hai.

Jo ki actually me hota kya hai ki jab ek ladka aur ek ladki pehli baar milte hai tab woh strenger hote hai isliye unke bich me trust aur expectation zero hota hai.

Magar jab woh ek dusre ke ache dost bante hai tab unke bich me trust 30% ho jata hai aur usi ke sath expectation bhi 10% badh jata hai.

Magar jab yahi friendship pyaar me badal jaati hai tab trust 100% ho jata hai aur wahi dusri taraf expectation ka level 200% ho jata hai aur yeh jab expectation puri nahi hoti than relationship start getting disturb aur jo insan ek samay par hamare liye special tha wo ab hamare liye wahi strenger ban jata hai yani ki ab uska trust aur expectation fir se zero hone lagta hai.

Jo ki eventually breakup me convert ho jata hai aur isi tarah se ek sacha pyaar hone ke bawajood bhi aap ka breakup ho jata hai.

Wahi dusri taraf relationship me aate hi ladke demanding ho jati hai aur sara power of control apne hath me lena chahte hai jiski wajah se wo ladkiyo ko kya karna chahiye kya nahi karna chahiye woh samjhane lagte hai.

Jaise usse mat milo waha mat jao woh ladka kon hai usse mat milna ghar se kam nilka karo kaha jari ho akele kyun jaa rahi ho etc etc.

Magar woh bechari ye samajh nahi paate ki bhai kisi bhi ladki ko ye bilkul bhi pasand nahi aata ki koi dusra insaan usse ye bataye ki unhe kya karna chahiye ya kya nahi karna chahiye.

Halaki ladke kai baar apne love ki suraksha aur sawdhani ke liye hi rok lagate hai magar unke bolne ka tarika aur salah dene ka dhang galat hota hai jiski wajah se ladki uski baat ka galat matalb nikal leti hai jiski wajah se ladki ko yeh lagne lagta hai ki uski azadi chinn li jaa rahi hai aur ladke ko yeh lagne lagta hai ki ladki uski respect nahi karti aur isi tarah se dono ke swabhiman ko jaane anjane thes pahuchti hai and eventually pyar ke rishto me duriya badhne lagti hai jiski wajah se jab pyaar hone ke bawjood bhi woh ek dusre se door ho jate hai.

Chaliye is chiz ko me apko thoda practical ke example ke sath samjhata hun :-

To dosto ek baar ek scientist ne bade se round table par ek bada sa alphabet likh diya jo kuch is tarah se dikhta tha ab us round table ke aas pass char logo ko bithaya gaya aur unhe ye pucha gaya ki ye kon sa alphabet hai to pehle insaan ne kaha ye to W hai, dusre insaan ne kaha ye to 3 hai, wahi teesre insaan ne kaha ye to M hai aur chothe insaan ne bataya ki ye to capital E hai.

Ab ye charo log apni baat ko sabit karne ke liye ek dusre se behas karne lage yahi ki ek dusre se jhagdne lage ab dosto hua kya ki in logo ko jhagdta hua dekh kar scientist room me aaye aur unhe bataya ki dekho bhai shant ho jao kyunki aap sabhi log sach bol rahe ho aur aap sabhi logo ka dekhne ka nazariya bilkul sahi hai.

Yaha par zaroori yeh nahi tha ki kon sahi hai ya kon galat balki yaha par important yeh tha ki aap ke dekhne ka nazariya kon sa hai kyunki yahi same principle apki zindagi me bhi apply hota hai ki husband ke nazariye se usse life W ki tarah dikhti hai aur wahi wife ki nazariye se usse life M ki tarah dikhti hai.

Ab isi wajah se un dono me ladai shuru ho jati hai kyunki husband ke nazariye se woh sahi hai aur wife galat hai aur wife ke nazariye se wife khud sahi hai aur husband galat hai aur isi wajah se ye ladai endless tarike se chalti jati hai. Aur isi tarah se dono lovers apne pyar ko dheere dheere khone lagte hai kyunki woh dono ne kabhi ek dusre ke nazariye se zindagi ko dekhne ki koshish hi nahi ki hoti ek dusre ko kabhi samjhne ki koshish hi nahi ki.

Jiski wajah se hi couple ko kuch samay hone ke baad ek dusre ka pyaar feel hona band ho jata hai aur isi wajah se na chahte hue bhi ek din unka breakup ho jata hai. Aur dosto isi tarah se sacha pyaar karne wale couple bhi apni zindagi me se pyar ko jane anjane me hi kho dete hai

Breaking Up Due To Shallow Thinking :-

Breakup hone ka agla reason psychology shallow thinking ko batate hai ab maan lijiye ki aapko jaldi se office pahuchna hai aur aap ki wife ne aap ko break fast dene me thoda sa late kar diya jiski wajah se hi aap ki train bhi chuth gai aur uske baad apko office jaane ke liye dusri koi train nahi milne wali ab aisi situation me aapke pass do option hote hai.

pehla ki train chuth jane ke liye aap aag babula hokar apni wife ko dantne lag jao ye jante hue bhi ki woh subah 6 baje uth kar aap ke liye breakfast aur lunch box bana rahi thi.

Dusra option ki aap apne gusse o side me kar ke apni wife ko uske effed ke liye thank you bol kar usse pyar se uski galti samjha sako.

Ab dosto hota kya hai ki jo log shallow thinking wale hote hai woh normally pehla wala option hi chose karte hai aur bina jyada soche samjhe woh apni wife par chillane lagte hai ki tumhari wajah se aaj meri train chut gai ab mujhe bus se jana padega  etc etc.

Aur aapke is behaviour ko dekh kar aap ki wife jo bechari subah se aap ke liye kaam kar rahi thi us bechari ka to ab dil hi toot jata hai.

Wahi aisi situation me deep thinking approach ka istemal karne wale log yeh sochte hai ki dekh bhai late hone se mere train to pehle hi chuth gai hai to ab wife pe chillane se meri problem to solve hone nahi wali isse batter hai ki me apni lover se pyar se baat karu uske afford ke liye thank you bolu aur next time aisi situation create na ho uske usse pyar se baat karu taaki mera baki ka din bhi acha jaye aur meri love life me bhi koi problem na aaye.

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